FIRE GATE OF HEALING:

 

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A Father’s Buddhist Journey from

Suicide to Service

 

by

  Writing  
 

  Fire Gate Book   

Henry C. Finney, Ph.D.

October 2008

 

 

 TABLE OF CONTENTS

 

PREFACE:  Origins & Overview of the Book

 

PART I – NARRATIVE

 

PROLOGUE:  A Glimpse of Happier Times    

 

POEM:    “Moon-Faced Buddha: A Requiem”

 

CHAPTER I  – IMPACT

 

CHAPTER 2 – ABYSS

 

                   Signs of Trouble

                   Descent    

 

CHAPTER 3 – THE ROOTS OF SORROW

 

                   Why Understand Past Causes?

                   Family Origins of Suffering

                   My Own Background of Sorrow

                   Influences Within My Own Family

                   Developments and Difficulties for Chris in Vermont

                   Concluding Assessment

 

CHAPTER 4 -- BACK FROM THE EDGE

 

                   Clinic Transitions

                   Mid-Atlantic Ridge

                   Extended Grief Work

                   Signs of Healing

                   Reconstruction Begins

 

CHAPTER 5 – OVERCOMING BARRIERS TO HEALING

 

                   Illness and Fragmentation

                   Decline of the Hidden Mountain Zen Center

                   Issues of Teacher Misbehavior and Accountability

                   Breakthrough:  Finding my “Yearning Creature”

 

CHAPTER 6 – LETTING GO AND SEEING THE STRUCTURE OF

                          DELUSION

 

                   The Process of Learning to Let Go

                   Accessing Unconscious Emotional Structures

                   Seeing My Own Structure of Grief

                   Resulting Insights and New Directions

 

CHAPTER 7 – CULTIVATING PEACE & RETURNING TO LIFE

 

                   Ongoing Practice and Healing

                   Four Poems

                   Transitional Openings into Freedom

                   The Dance of Relative and Absolute

 

PART II – TEACHINGS & HEALING PRACTICES

 

CHAPTER 8 -- THE TRUTH OF SUFFERING

 

                   Three Pillars of Strong Practice

                   The Importance of Intention and Choice

                   Relevant Healing Practices

 

                             Coping with Immediate Dangers

                             Finding Social Support

                             Knowing You’re Not Alone

 

CHAPTER 9 -- ORIGINS OF SUFFERING

 

                   Teachings on the Origin of Suffering

                   The Construct of Self or the I-System

                   Impermanence and No-Self

                   Frustrated Desires and Suffering

                   Being Stuck in “Samsara”

                   Relevant Healing Practices 

Educating Yourself

Self-Expression

A Tool for Emotional Crisis

CHAPTER 10 – INSIGHTS INTO THE SELF-ORIGINS OF SUFFERING

 

                   Self as a Trap

                   Cause and Effect in Buddhism

                   Zen’s “Frontal Assault” Approach

                   Gentler Approaches

                   The Challenge of Getting Unstuck

                   Relevant Healing Practices

 

                             Why Meditation?

                             How to Begin Meditating

          `                  Overcoming Traditional Barriers

                             The Importance of Physical Awareness

 

CHAPTER 11 – ENTERING THE FIRE-GATE OF HEALING

 

                   Entering the Fire Gate

                   More on the Importance of Intention

                   The Healing Power of Mindfulness Meditation

                   Developing Strong Meditative Concentration & Mindfulness

                   The “Warrior Spirit”

                   Relevant Healing Practices

 

                             Overcoming Common Barriers to Getting Unstuck

                             Focusing Mindfulness on the Afflictive Emotions

                             Intensifying the Lens of Mindfulness

                             Exercises for Working with Afflictive Emotions

                             Accessing Dark Emotions Via Body Meditations            

 

CHAPTER 12 – HEALING, EMOTIONAL ALCHEMY AND THE

                             STRUCTURE OF SUFFERING

 

                   Clearly Seeing the Realities of Our Condition

                   Schemas

                   The Nature of Healing

                   The Process of Healing:  Dissolving the Bonds of Reactivity

                   Emotional Alchemy

                   Relevant Healing Practices

 

                             Interrupting Automatic Reactions

                             Long-Term Practice

                             Cultivating Wholesome Emotions

 

CHAPTER 13 -- LETTING GO INTO TRANSFORMATION 

 

                   Preparations for Letting Go

                   Facing the Truth About Self

                   The Transition

                   The Challenge of Fundamental Letting Go

                   Aspects of Liberation

                   Relevant Healing Practices

 

                             Everyday Mindfulness

                             Techniques for Letting Go

                             Re-taking One’s Bearings

 

CHAPTER 14 -- DISCOVERING GROUNDLESSNESS & FORGETTING

                             THE SELF

 

                   Formless Forms of Meditation

                   Deeper Letting Go

                   Forgetting the Self

                   Discovering Groundlessness

                   Returning to Ordinary Life

                   Feeling the Pain of Others

                   Endless Practice:  Continuing the Dance Independently

 

PART III – SUMMARY, BIBLIOGRAPHY & SHORT BIOGRAPHY

 

CHAPTER 15 – SUMMARY OF HEALING PRACTICES AND EXERCISES

 

BIBLIOGRAPHY & RECOMMENDED READINGS

 

ABOUT THE AUTHOR